7 Signs of a Future Husband

When two people are ready for love and are suited for each other, it doesn’t take long to feel inseparable.  Whether you’ve been dating for years or only a few months, you may feel uncomfortable thinking about marriage.  But when it’s right, there’s no reason to deny your feelings.

Here are the most important signs that you’re dating a potential future husband. 

Please answer yes or no to the following statements.  Then use the guide below to assess your results.

1. I love spending time with him – You look forward to spending fun times together and can’t wait until the next time you see him.  Most of the time you spend together is good – you smile often when he’s around.
    
2. I respect his insight and value his opinion – Although you’re comfortable taking responsibility in your life, you value your guy’s opinion and appreciate his advice when making important decisions. 
    
3. We share the same values and beliefs – Whether it’s your faith, family values, or how you spend your time, you both feel strongly about the same things.  The two of you are excited and upset about the same issues in the world around you.
    
4. I’m confident about how to feels about me – His actions and words show you how he feels to the point that there’s no doubt of his interest.
    
5. I feel safe when I’m with him – He treats you with care.  He shows concern for your physical, spiritual and emotional well-being.
    
6. Our future together naturally comes up – Both of you are so happy to be together that your future together naturally comes up in conversation.  You may not have a set wedding date and he hasn’t quite proposed but there’s a strong desire from both of you to be together for a long time.
    
7. I can depend on him when I truly need him – Although no one can be all places at all times, he’s there for you when it counts the most.  There’s no question that he’ll be there for you when you’re in danger or need help immediately.

What do my answers mean?

6-7 Yes Answers: If you answered yes to 6 or more statements, then you’re currently dating a potential future husband.  You should always have your eyes open for any red flags that come up, however the level of compatibility is undeniable.  Be sure to share your feelings and needs when appropriate.

3-5 Yes Answers: Your relationship with the man you’re dating has promise.  However there are some important things that are missing in order for your relationship to last for years.  If you’ve only been dating for a few months, you can date a little longer and then take this assessment again.  But if you’re looking for more and it’s not there, keep your options open for the right fit.

1-2 Yes Answers: It’s clear that your guy does something for you, but it’s not enough for a long-term relationship or a commitment like marriage.  Get clear on what you truly want in a relationship, even if it feels like a fantasy, and have faith that the right man is out there for you.  Consider dating other people and keep your eyes open for the right guy.

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1. Tangi says:

   Sep 6, 2011 at 10:47 am

   This was right on time for my birthday!!! Great insight – I scored a 7. Well WE scored a 7. HUGE grin on my face. I’m flexible though so I remain prayerful about my future.

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2. Jennifer says:

   Sep 7, 2011 at 5:16 am

   Love it! I feel so blessed to have him in my life.

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