Attracting More Eligible Men

Do you ever get the feeling that the only men interested in you are unemployed, unattractive or unavailable?  Although I believe a woman should appreciate all the attention she gets from the opposite sex, some men do approach you because they feel they have nothing to lose.

So, if you want to attract more eligible men, you may have to take a few steps to let him know you’re interested and he can approach you.

1. Ask yourself: What one thing would a man have to do to impress me?  If you want more eligible men to pay you attention, you’ve got to be clear on the kind of attention you want to receive.  Do you like being approached or to make eye contact?  Do you like a man who asks you what you want or do you like a man to suggest the next step?  There is no right or wrong answer, just make sure it’s the answer that truly would impress you.  Then, when you’re paying attention to the men around you, be on the lookout for the men who do things the way you like them done.
   
       
2. Spend time during the week where your kind of guy hangs out.  This may be a toughee if you don’t have an active social life.  But think about all the fun things you like to do, and spend time after work or on the weekends doing things you love to do.  Keep in mind that the goal isn’t just to meet men or be asked out on the date.  You can use this time to brush up on your flirting skills as well.
   
       
3. When you get attention from men who seem “out of your league,” go with it. It’s funny how when you see a guy who’s really cute and well put together, more than the men you normally date, and he’s looking at you with desire, you may get nervous or dismiss the attention.   But if he looks at you with interest, it’s probably genuine.  So, if you hear a little voice telling you “He must be looking at someone else,” ignore it!  You’re a rockstar!  And people can see how amazing you are.   Trust your instincts and open yourself up a tiny bit.
   
       

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1. Paula says:

   Jan 11, 2012 at 7:36 am

   Thank you for this article. I especially liked #3. I will take more risks in that area.

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